SUCCESS is the favorable or prosperous termination of attempts or endeavors; the accomplishment of one’s goals – says the dictionary. So, why do we spend so much of our lives trying to get ‘success’?
In my life, this ‘success-matter’ made me anxious, it made me think of how I am going to get there. Where is that line? Where should I get to? What if I can’t do the things that would made me succeed? What if I don’t want success?
That’s the moment where I asked myself, Seren, what are you going to do? What would you like to do? What is that thing you love to do and can make money from it?
Is it reading books? No.
Is it writing poetry? No.
Is it dancing ? No…
So what the hell is it? What are you going to do for living?
Well, after 17 years of squeezing my mind, I’ve put together 3 things that I’m good at.. ORGANIZING, TALKING to people and CREATING.
But then I realized I need to get work done, I need to meet people, I need to use my head, time and youth until I produce something. This is why sometimes, you need to ask yourself if that thing that you’re doing right now is helping you to get your dream job. If the answer is yes, then work harder. If the answer is no, you’re probably binge watching Pretty Little Liars or something. Or even worse, you go out with people that you don’t like and pretend that these are your friends being unhappy to being lonely.
My favorite THEORY is that you have to spend more than you can actually afford in order to put yourself onto the next level in life and this will be an extra motivator for you to go out of your everyday life and start doing something else because you know how it feels like to be on top.
Every second that you’re gonna spend on comparing yourself to those people could have been spent it on building and creating something. Taking these into account, when you’ll open your Facebook or Instagram account to look at other people and spend some time there, tell yourself: Okay, I’m gonna stop now and I’m gonna create something or I’m gonna read this article or I’m gonna take salsa lessons…Do not waste your time, please.
JUST SIT THERE AND ASK YOURSELF IF THERE IS ANYTHING ELSE YOU SHOULD BE DOING INSTEAD OF JUST HANGING OUT…
Compare yourself to who you were yesterday! Also never stop learning and most importantly, cherish your family ’cause family means power.
Another thing… Take care of what you tell people because you’ll see them again. Do not offend other people because at some point in your life, they are getting back, sweetheart!
At the end of this article I would like to leave you some tips to be successful every day, because the Great War was never one battle.
Tell your opinion only if someone asks for it
You don’t need bigger boobs. You need to read better books
Your kindness isn’t conditioned by someone else’s
You decide who you are
YOU are alive today because YOU have to be happy
Be careful with your words, THEY DO HURT A LOT
Think about what you have, not about what you don’t have
Everything will be fine, just trust yourself
Everything happens for a reason
EAT DIAMONDS AND SHINE ALL DAY
Rules are made to be broken
Everything flourishes and gives fruit when praised. Praises do wonders
TRUST YOUR FIRST INSTINCT
Loneliness is a sign that says you’re in desperately need of yourself
LISTEN TO PEOPLE WHEN THEY TALK TO YOU!
When someone throws dirt at you, his/her/their hands are the ones with dirt
Less words, way more smiling
Don’t judge people. People change, people learn, people get over…
Your magic isn’t meant to be like anyone else’s
If speaking nicely to plants makes them grow, Imagine what speaking nicely does to humans
FEAR IS STUPID. SO ARE REGRETS
Great things don’t come from comfort zone
When you are hurt, observe. LIFE’S trying to teach you sth
Your time is valuable
“Try not to become a man of success. Rather become a man of value” – Albert Einstein